A Vacation State of Mind by Kay Jamison

A Vacation State of Mind by Kay Jamison, NAPO Member Since 2017

There is something magical that happens when we are on vacation.  It happens when we gradually let go of the daily to-dos at home or work. It happens as the garage door closes and we stop trying to remember if we stopped the mail and turned off the lights. It happens even without conscious thought.

Somehow, when we are on vacation, all of our senses go into high gear. We have a heightened sense of awareness and see things with our eyes wide open.  We even read – out loud – all of the signs on stores and billboards! You’ve done that too, right?!  I always find that so interesting and it seems like such a universal phenomenon among people with whom I’ve traveled.

At the same time, we are letting go of daily responsibilities, we dive deep into processing our new surroundings. We notice the little things like the pattern of the ocean waves, the shapes of the stars that light up the evening sky. We set aside time to get up early to watch the sunrise and plan our evening around a colorful sunset.  We seem to have a keener sense of smell or at least pay more attention to the humid and briny scent of the ocean air, the aroma of sweet cinnamon bark and pine in the forest and the way the sunlight cascades through the trees.

If the vacation is long enough, we may even adopt habits and routines from the locals. We notice different lifestyles and ponder the future in, “what if’s.” Such as, “What if I was retired, would I want to live here? Or, “What would I do if I won the lottery?” We become more philosophical and contemplate some of life’s larger questions.

Vacations often open up our minds to explore adventurous new activities or ways to pass the time. We often do things we would never dream of doing! But we are on vacation and the child in us naturally comes out to play. We have more opportunities to be our true selves.

Vacations are a wonderful time to unwind, relax and reflect. We can let go of stress and give our minds more space to think about possibilities. Or, just think about nothing at all.

Summer offers a wide spectrum of new opportunities and eye-opening experiences. We are drawn to explore new places and think about new ideas. Let’s think about another, “what if.” What if we allow ourselves to have this same vacation state of mind at home? Although it doesn’t require much effort, we don’t always give ourselves the physical and mental breaks we need. We can lose that childlike sense of wonder, yet we do it so effortlessly on vacation.

See if you can find a few hours or even a day in the next week to give yourself a vacation at home. Put it on the calendar and just as you would on vacation, leave thoughts of your work, your to-do list, and other responsibilities behind. Open up your senses right where you are and notice the little things you often breeze by. Look at your daily schedule and habits in a different way. What could you change to make things simpler or better? Breathe deep and perhaps you’ll be setting time aside to watch the sunset in your own back yard.

 

4 thoughts on “A Vacation State of Mind by Kay Jamison

  1. What a refreshing article and it’s so amazing how taking a break truly does help your productivity. Thanks for sharing!

  2. Thank you, Angel! It seems like a simple concept but you’re right, we sometimes have to force ourselves to take breaks, or heaven forbid, a day off! Have a wonderful summer! – Kay

  3. Kay,

    I love this article. Thanks for sending it in to the NAPO blog! I am a fellow NAPO member and writer.

    It’s so true that when we are on vacation, we are in a totally different frame of mind! As a driven perfectionist constantly working on my To Do List, both work and personal, I feel like a completely different person when I allow myself to take a break from that mindset. Or better said, when I force myself. After reading your article, I feel inspired to do this more often. 🙂

    Angie Hyche

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