How Being Present Clears Clutter

 

 

By Lauren Mang, Let Me Organize It, LLC

I’ve had the pleasure of working with some really wonderful clients, but Katherine really stood out. She worked for years as a successful biochemical scientist and had a lot of wonderful things. After years of this lifestyle, Katherine sought real change. She turned to Buddhism and began not only practicing but teaching it.

Over three sessions, Katherine and I worked together to clear and review items within her condo. Some items Katherine had no attachment to, so the decisions were quick and easy. I was pleasantly surprised when Katherine agreed to let go of 75% of her items.

What I admired most about Katherine was how she handled to items from her ‘past’ life. With each, she’d have same reaction: take a breath, smile, and quietly exclaim, “Wow!” She’d hold the items for a moment, acknowledge their importance and the purpose they served, and then quietly say, “This is a part of my past. I’m ready to let it go.”

Katherine was so immersed in the now that fear and anxiety were not clouding her judgment of materialistic belongings. I said to her, “Katherine, you’ve let go of most of your shoes. Are you sure you don’t want to keep a pair for an evening out?” She thought for a moment before responding, “I think I’d like to treat myself to a new pair.”

Living in the present allows us to realize what we need in the moment. We are not left asking, “What if I need it in two years?” or “What if I finally lose the weight?” The simple answer is, you might not need it in two years (if you do, buy it). Or if you lose the weight, reward yourself with new clothes that you feel great in.

We don’t know what the future will hold, but the universe is ready and willing to provide what you need right now, just lean in. This means letting go of fear of the future, or anxiety/uncertainty over the past. Live in this moment, right now, and watch life become clearer and simple.

Lauren is passionate about people and was born to help others get organized! As early as middle school, she was helping friends clean and organize their bedrooms, much to their parents’ delight. After a decade in the Fine Arts industry, living in New York, London, and Los Angeles, she relocated to the Peninsula and started Let Me Organize It, LLC in June 2014. As a compassionate, kind, and mindful organizer with a focus on holistic organization, Lauren teaches that organizing isn’t simply about “a place for everything and everything in its place.” Instead, it’s about creating an environment in which you thrive. Lauren assists her clients with this by customizing systems and plans, focusing on each client’s distinct needs and vision as a guide. Lauren feels that organizing is her gift to the world and feels grateful to share it with as many people as possible.

6 thoughts on “How Being Present Clears Clutter

  1. Lauren, your blog post was so eloquently written. Thank you for sharing and thank Katherine for allowing you to share her story with us.

  2. This article is awesome! Storing it away in my files to be reminded of “Living in present” not only for my clients but for myself. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your insight!

  3. Great blog! I believe your comment “Living in the present allows us to realize what we need in the moment” will aid clients in their decisions and the decluttering process easier.

  4. Thanks for writing your blog. So many of us struggle with our clients helping them to let go. I especially like your sentence “This means letting go of fear of the future, or anxiety/uncertainty over the past. “

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